In the past, almost never terfikirkan me and my husband will have a home in Riverside. Actually, this is not the first thing that "unexpected". Create two of us, many other things, that now exist and that everything has happened ... we never thought before. As time went on, our plans sometimes do not fit with the circumstances and opportunities, sometimes even turn the other way, and at the same time, the opportunity could come without being invited, who should we catch, we fought and we even maintain. For example yes our house, we also see it as an opportunity. Opportunity and certainly enjoyable so that we can live to the fullest in this country, America. State not our homeland, but it could just be a "home" for both of us. FREE GET HOME WITHOUT M0NEY - MUST READ
Life to the fullest intention is we want to really feel the "art" became a U.S. resident, not just the immigrants who (could be) only, or more selfish or just know a little about the sundries of life in America. Well yes, although we've been living in Hawaii (since 2002) and was also a year in Scotland, we (me especially) feel that the phase is now slightly different. Dula time my husband and I are still learning this job and it ... and we lived in student dormitories, we do not much have a "responsibility". Scholarship money, enough to pay for rent one room together and health insurance. Boro-boro thinking about vehicle insurance, a car can not .. because it can not make any SIM. The cost of food and other monthly needs, pretty-pretty wrote for both of us. Nothing big story for the show and invited about 40 people, for example. Nothing is also the story entertaining guests who come to the house. Scholarship money enough to buy books and daily meals, while working enough money for payroll costs lain2, including the additional secondary books, travel costs, costs of entertainment / movies, buy clothes and other secondary needs. All is safe .. well .. simple.
Well now, is somewhat different. Because we do not think living here is only "mere stopover", many things that we do not always think and know, right now our concern. A bit challenging, but we enjoy doing it. We have so much to learn and hope ... it all can be useful in our next life. Well things menatang but fun it is ... including our obligation to know about how safe and easy way to pay daily living needs, how to find the right insurance and good for home, vehicle and health, how to find ways and knowledge to be corrected at the same time caring for the house (not use bayar2 handyman because muahal!), how can drive myself to and fro, how to understand things that are legal / illegal, and certainly should know how this tax and it applies. While about looking for food, still somewhat the same .. past or present, we are trying to find a healthy, good, and fits in your pocket. Well specifically for food, now we have to weigh ... what needs to have a "Costco card" for example (a cheap grocery wholesale), and what needs to collect kupon2 spending cuts? - AIH, we have decided that this.
Besides all that, of course .. we also have to learn pinter2 same people hanging out here. Well ya learn constantly how so we can be received here ... and so that we can also accept them. We learn to hold so he could live comfortably bersandingan, mutual respect, and of course helping each other, without any "inconvenient". In the past, Thank God, my relationship together kawan2 in the office (semoga..) Baik2 course, fit college also baik2 ajah. Well dimana2 just wrote, there are people who bae aja, the evil, which nyenengin, which is annoying, de el el and de es te. All depends on us wrote, because apa2 could be difficult if taken hard.
My principles in the mix ... yes try to genuine, try not nyusahin friend, trying to be sensitive or do not want nosy same personal affairs (religious, sexual, family, finances, education) until that person feel comfortable for sharing, trying to find the equality (talk about college same lecture, talking about money sma who have money, he he), and try not to force or judge in any case. Each person has his own philosophy, which of course is in the paint by family background, environment and education. I respect each of his, not my capacity to judge, because it is God's business alone. But of course kalao I asked for advice or an opinion about something, I'll try to be honest and will not impose my philosophy on others. I will never be perfect, I can only try .. and I want to continue to learn .. from anyone, anywhere and anytime.
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